Current ALSFRS-R 2
My Life. My Story.
Still Serving.
Welcome to David's ALS (Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis) Blog for Awareness of ALS Disease (Lou Gehrig). I am so happy you found me! Let me take you on a journey into my life and how living to my fullest has filled my DASH.
My DASH? What do you mean? Everyone is born and dies on a certain date, but it is what you do with the (--) in the middle that determines who you were in this life. When I was a young man, I did not care about what I did with my dash. You either liked me or you didn't. I did what I wanted, when I wanted, and how I wanted, without really caring about the results.
Eventually, I joined the Army as a Military Policeman. Serving my country for 21 years was an honor and on my way I learned about my "dash." No longer did I believe in “like me or not." I cared what people thought about me. I wanted to be a great dad - "good" was not enough. I wanted to be a great Soldier and I wanted to give back to others and my communities. Most importantly, I wanted to be a great husband. After all, I tried being a husband the other way twice before and failed. I don’t blame anyone but myself for that. It’s too easy to say someone else is the reason for a bad marriage or relationship, but the truth is you need to look in the mirror at where you failed. Its to easy to walk on by and do nothing - that takes no effort at all.
You want to know what’s hard?
Doing the work. Caring for others. Giving to your communities. Taking you kids to practice (even though you already put in a full day’s work). Saying, "I am sorry, I was wrong" to your spouse.
THAT'S the hard stuff, and only when you start doing those things is when you start filling in your DASH.
In this ALS blog, I am going to share with you my ALS story and how it has became my mission to teach others about ALS Condition/ALS Syndrome, ALSFRS-R, Types of ALS, etc. Along the way, I will share stories about me and my life and how I am living with ALS and only so much time left... but also how I filled my bucket so full that you won’t see the "born" and "died" dates, rather ALL of the stuff in between that filled my DASH.